The following was published some years ago in the Battle Creek Enquirer, before I started my regular posting of Linda Jo Scott's columns.
Back in the mid seventies I spent a year teaching English at a university in Seoul, Korea. I fondly remember the beautiful countryside and the high level of creativity evident in the art and architecture. But most of all, I remember the warmth of the Korean people. My colleagues invited our family into their homes; my students were very respectful and eager to learn, and my neighbors generously helped me with shopping and cooking.
I wrote the following open letter to a particular young girl whom I observed during one of my many bus rides around Seoul. I don’t remember her name and perhaps never saw her more than once, but my letter to her appeared as one of my many columns in "The Korea Times.”
My dear young lady,
I just watched you give up your seat to an old woman with a bundle of cabbages in her hand, and I want to convey to you my admiration for this simple gesture.
I want to tell you that I think you are beautiful in your simple, long, gray school uniform, with your straight-cropped hair, your dark stockings, and your modest expression.
Your refusal to wear makeup or curl your hair--even on a Sunday afternoon--is admirable. You accept your role as a schoolgirl with such grace and simplicity, hoping, no doubt, that someday you will emerge from this somber cocoon into a beautiful and desirable woman. But not yet.
You were born some eight or nine years after your fathers and uncles fought together with some of my older friends for your freedom. And yet you are not naive. You have lived all of your life knowing that your freedom is precious, knowing that your people have been oppressed for most of their existence and will continue to live in danger. Saddest of all, your people seem always to have been the victims, never the aggressors.
Korea is like a young school girl, attacked time and again by hungry, possessive men, and yet she retains her purity and dignity.
Perhaps some of your own family are unknown to you because they live
in North Korea. Perhaps you will never know them.
You know that your city could be bombed anytime by the people of the north, and you know, also, that your own family might well not escape south of the Han River, for there are so many people, so few bridges. And, sad to say, there would be so little time.
And yet, my dear, you have such a calm about you. I feel as though I have seen you on a hundred streets of Seoul with your school chums, often walking arm in arm or hand in hand, with a serenity far beyond your years. I have never seen you girls put on airs; I have never even seen you laugh loudly.
Even now if I smile at you, you will only return a slight acknowledgment. I cannot speak your language, and so I must write to you in my own tongue, expressing the warm feeling that I, as an older sister from the West, have for you.
May you never lose your innate respect for those older than you. May
you someday become a wise mother who will pass on these values to her
children. And may your children grow and blossom in freedom.
Warmest greetings, Linda
I can only hope that this girl--now a woman of close to 60 years old, probably a mother and perhaps even a grandmother--is having a good life.